September 1992 - A Decade Ends for Oblate Directress

from September 1992 RB "NOTES"

Often in years past, Sisters had expressed the desirability of having Oblates of St. Benedict affiliated with St. Gertrude's.  Sr. Miriam Ruth Wilk was always the most ardent proponent of such a program.  During Lent of 1982, Sr. Patricia supported and encouraged her in inviting persons who might be interested in the idea.  Sixteen women and men responded by joining the Sisters for Mass and dinner on May 27 of that year.  Rev. Adrian Fuerst, OSB of St. Meinrad Archabbey, then discussed with them the meaning and advantages of Benedictine oblation.  A year and a half later, seven persons made their commitment.  Nearly every year since then, there has been a commitment ceremony for new Oblates.

During the first decade, Sr. Miriam Ruth directed the program.  Sr. Anselma Biskach has assisted, especially by her moral support and by chauferring.  Srs. Mary Joseph Dougherty, Marie Consolata Billingsley, and Mary Louise Robino have given invaluable help in meetings held in the Wilmington area.  More recently, Sr. Barbara Ann Gondek became co-directress and is now in charge of the program.

Although Sr. Miriam Ruth coordinated most of the monthly sessions, she often invited guest speakers, especially for days of recollection.  Frequently, too, Sr. Patricia or some other member of the community led a discussion on the Liturgy of the Hours or on some aspect of the RULE and monastic life.  More recently, Sr. Barbara Ann, as assistant, had addressed the group.  Hence, there was nothing unusual on the first Sunday of May when the latter chaired the session.  The theme and the outcome were a surprise to Sr. Miriam Ruth, however; for it was a farewell and ....[rest of article temporarily missing]